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Little thing about little one

Basically, people who doesn't know me or anything about my life will assume that I'm a single mom or there's something in their mind or  Adam is my little nephew. I'm married, but my husband isn't always around with us. I think it really does became a natural situation for me. I get it, I have to be a mom and dad on the same time. Tiring? Only God knows. May Allah bless every woman in the world.  Amin.

Being a parents is one lifetime job. Take it or leave it. If you decide to have single life till the rest of your life, you are the one will lose. There's something about being parents that I love. Especially, being a stay home mom like me. I've been there since the first day Adam was born to this world. 

So, here's you need to know ; He is turning to THREE this year! Two more years he's going to school.Wait, whattttt? I bet all mommies would react the same as mine. It was like "time flies so quickly and he grow up in a minute" moment. Yes, EVERY MOMMIES WILL FEEL THE SAME. 

Adam is alhamdulillah, he is really one hyperactive little guy. I can say he is shy. He doesn't want to be near stranger or unfamiliar faces ( well, who does?) I mean, the one that he didn't see everyday or that often. Try asked Amy. She knows.

Despite being Mr Super Grumpy or Little Hulk, Adam is a fast learner. He learns everything just like that. Some people asked me what did I do? What did I do?

a) You need to watch Nanny Diaries. I get a goosebumps when I watched the movie. You don't want to raise your child like that.
b) I didn't give him the most expensive formula milk to make him brilliant. I give him a Dutch Lady formula milk. (well, some people asked me this)
c) By this age, they learned so fast like a sponge. What are you waiting for??  If you are not afford to buy books, download from the internet or Youtube. There's million of learning video for your little one.
e) Asked them every night what did they learned.
f) Buy them play doh/ plasticine or lego. Let they create their own imagination. Trust me, it was fun.
g) Try to bring them out once in awhile. See the real world.
h) Be with them as much as you can.


I'm not the best person in the world to give you mommies advice, but that's what I'm doing. You'll be suprise what have you done :-)

In case some people are wondering, Adam is Iban-Malay from my family side and Melanau-Malay from MIL's side.



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